Tuesday, August 14, 2007

Visits to the Orphanage

Andi and I stand outside of the front doors of our hotel. We watch the parking lot for the familiar silver van. There are others milling about, sitting on their haunches by a shrub, huddled tightly talking about something in hushed mumbles. We feel safe. Our driver is never late, and like clockwork he pulls up and our translator opens the door. We greet each other as we get in the van and then sit back for the Russian rollercoaster ride to the orphanage. Our translators are young college age adults and are very friendly. We talk to them about all sorts of subjects as the van weaves between potholes. Our orphanage, baby house #3, is among an apartment complex. The van turns up and down streets past children playing in the cinnamon colored dust that is the ground here. It is soon that we see the faded multi-colored fence that surrounds the orphanage’s playground. The playground is made up of a few monkey bars and several tires half buried on end. We open a loosely chained gate and ascend 3 steps into the orphanage. We walk into the entry way, where an old black couch sits against the wall. Also a desk is in the corner were a worker usually sits. They know us there now, because when we walk in they mumble something in a questioning tone then go get Lilia. When she arrives, she smiles and reaches for us, then we take her outside. In the playground, she walks holding our hands and babbling a little. After about 30 minutes we head inside to the music room. Today, Lilia was so excited to go into the music room that she almost leapt out of my arms when the door opened. The music room has 2 pianos, a puppet theatre, small chairs, musical toys, stuffed animals, etc inside. We play, dance, walk, sit, crawl, throw balls, and wipe her nose, since she has a cold. After about 1.5 hr we head back down the long, narrow hallway to hand Lilia back over to the caregivers. We wave byebye (pa-ka, pa-ka) and she is taken down a different long hallway to her group’s room for lunch. Today she was more talkative, jibber jabber mostly.
Now, we head to the grocery store to find some lunch and get more bottled water. The heat is back, which makes the trip more difficult. Maybe we’ll see some more exciting stuff on the way. Yesterday, there was a fire at the “theatre” and the entire Lenin Square was filled with smoke.

3 comments:

mommy said...

You have a connection with Lilia! She likes the music room--that's appropriate. She already recognizes her parents! Nicole could take lessons as she often tries to pretend we're not related. You've surrendered to it, Jonah (being in Russia). That must be so hard to do. I'm proud of you both. And Lilia is walking?

Here it has been a zoo. Last night Nicole had many girls in our home, all painting T-shirts for the first football game a week from Friday. They took over the kitchen, and oh yes, Aaron was here too, and Sarah has a new friend she met at work who was here also, such a very nice girl. So Dad and I went uptown to Breities (Marios was closed) and met Martha (who was in town) and Nona (who had Jacob at football practice, and the other two had been dropped at VBS). So we all stared at the gross menu trying to find something that didn't sound too gaggy. We had bad food and a good time, then came home and tip-toed to our bedroom and read Harry Potter. I told your dad, I know we're the 'big people' now, and have been for years, but our parents really gave us way more freedom than our children ever have. Since we had children almost at once (no questions, please) we have been responsible over them, then accountable to them for the rest of our lives. Now we are old and we are more accountable than ever. Isn't that strange?

Of course, your father had no opinion. He had been on a roof all day, had a bad supper, had split his head on a fitting, had the heating pad on his knee (which started acting up a week ago, after he went to the parade at the fair and groveled in the dust for candy and prizes). So he had no opinion he wanted to share, but that's okay, my opinions are usually big enough for both of us...and half the town really.

So hang in there. This week Nicole is at band camp, Jacob is doing those 3-a-day practices in the heat for football, Sarah is working at the daycare, Dad is in Carlinville, I am doing my thing at church, feeding the VBS workers tonight, it continues to be hot, hot, hot, and Nona fights the tower wars. God bless you all.
Mother

The Hulseys said...

Hi, Andi and Jonah!
We've been on vacation and are just catching up on your news. Congratulations on the addition of Lilia to your family. We can't wait to meet her and to have you all back with us at church again. Thanks for your wonderful descriptions of your lives right now. Your times with Lilia sound absolutely precious. We are praying for you!
Genie (for all of us)

Unknown said...

Hello from the states!

We've been "lurking" for a while but John says I can use his account and leave you a message! We're so excited for you both and are enjoying reading about your adventures! Those are some descriptive posts, Jonah! We decided you should turn these posts into a book. :-)

Just FYI- there's a shower in the works when you get back, so start thinking about what you need to register for! (sorry about ending with a preposition- man, now I'm nervous about my grammar while posting on your very literate blog!)

Love and prayers,

John and Michelle